Kids & Parents

During today lunch time i went to the cafe near my office,usually i prefer to go in park ,walk half hour or sit at the bench with cup of coffee!
Cafe named "west point",is nice little cafe near park  own by nice family from Thai.
I feel like at home when i have coffee there..most of customers there are people from my office or from small shops  around my office.
Day was so nice,sunny,clear and i didn't expect to find such a lot customers inside cafe.
OK cafe was full,no place to sit,but a young girl who work  in shop near my office called me at her table...of course we start to talk and in the middle of our talks family with 4 kids went in cafe.
OK no problem for me to be in same cafe with kids,i love kids !Well this parents with 4 kids ,went in to the cafe,took a coffee and stay at bar while kids running around,playing ...the owner was smiling but after sometime he  become little nervous cos children were like bunch of wild animals,Owner,the friend of mine serve cookies for kids and that helped for sometime but not long.
It was impossible to stay in cafe/cafe is small one and 4 kids inside is to much/ so most of customers decided to leave.
My friend and me   tried to help dear owner and me as older lady went to start little conversation with mother of4.
I was so very polite,and i propose her to take coffee outside together with kids..i  mentioned that we have nice park close to cafe .
She answered me very rude ,she said to me word which start with letter F..k.
After that incident i leaved cafe and return at office ,i am now at office and still cant believe that people can be so rude...
I know many nice couple who desperately want to have baby but cant,and this couple have it 4 and don't take proper cake about it.
For my opinion cafe or big markets or mall are not place for kids playing!

SLAVE

Definition of SLAVE
1
: a person held in servitude as the chattel of another
2
: one that is completely subservient to a dominating influence
3
: a device (as the printer of a computer) that is directly responsive to another

I started this post with definitions of word SLAVE with purpose.
But here i will not talk about slave life during the history,i will be much more personal.
Thanks God for this opportunity/to have place to write open and free/and possibility to share my thoughts and feels with other human being.
I need to say this very open.
I am slave of my parents,that's for sure.
I am 56 but in whole my life i didn't made any serious decision without big influence of my parents/they even choose to whom i will married/.
Friends told me years ago that i have to run faraway from my parents but i never find myself strong and brave to do that!
At begining i accepted my position under partents influace but by the time thats become very hard to live with.
I cant remember any single day with no call of my parents/my mother use to call me 4-6 times a day,she must know what i will buy,what i will cook etc./
My parents have full control on my money,my bank account and of course full control of my free time.
I can say that i am only free at the evening,when my parents asleep and than i can surf free!
I have luck cos my parents don't like to use PC  so at the evening i am free to do what i want in my room.
I cant go out to meet a friends if my Mather think i have to stay at home.
The big mistake i made when i start to work at my father factory,that's made me total slave cos he pays me.

All this situation make me so sad,and all this years i dream about free life!
Sometimes i even think ,whats very bed to think,that i will only be free when my parents past away!
God will forgive me for this bed thoughts,i hope!
My parent are so healthy and i think they will live forever,i will past away before!
I have everything and in same time i have nothing ,i am not free as human have to be,i am modern Slave!