Tips and tricks to find the very best partner

 Tips and tricks to find  the very best partner

As woman of 56 with 2 marriage behind and with last 32 years long marriage i have some rights to write about this subject!
Professionals will tell you this and that,will talk and talk  and on the end you will find yourself in very boring and unhappy relationship!

I will not selling you stupid and well-known recipes for long and happy marriage or relationship,here i will open my heart and will write from my heart.
What i know for sure is a very simple and professionals will never tell you this.
There is only one BIG RULE:

The main thing you have to avoid is to find partner with lot common .look dear,if you find lot common things with a man you only can run away,FAST!!
In love relation we dont need common things-lot common things such:both love to cook,both like same sport,both like to read ,both like to watch same TV show etc. will produce at the and and in short time very boring life.
Not only boring life but if we live with partner whit whom we have lot of common we will soon start to fight!
For example if we both like to cook...in few days we will start competition in kitchen,we will not be able to enjoy in food ,we will only try to be better and to win !
The only important place where we have to match is in our bedroom.
Sex must be fantastic from begging!
If sex is not fantastic from very begging you must runaway faraway...LOL...
Well my advice is try to find man who attract you by difference not with common!
Love you all
xoxoxoxox

Post by Nini Estera

I love you Skype

KEN please comeEarlier today my darling told me by skype that he will not be able to be for Holidays with us,family and me.
I'm still in big shock,that will be for the very first time that we will not be together for holidays.Yes my children will come with families ,grand kids will make my holidays enjoyable but my Ken will miss me so so very much.
he is on bussines trip for the last 35 days,the worse days in my whole life.


Ken i missing you..its worst at the evening when i have to go sleep alone,i miss our time in bed...you know when couple talk about passing day,when we comments news from politics,business,when i ask him what he would like to have for dinner tomorrow.
And he always waiting me in bed,making our bed warm....i miss way he touch me with his leg ...hehehehehe i even miss his snoring...oh how is nice when silence gone with his snoring.
Skype helping me a lot,we talk few time a day and every evening...we talk like a young couple,teasing each other...so i may say SKYPE is my the best friend this days.
My youngest daughter lives in house just next door to me and whenever she comes here she found me at SKYPE so she started to call me not mommy anymore now i have new name SKAYPI..
what i need is new web cam,to have even better view of my darling...ya
Its funny how we don't know what we have before we loose it...last 35 years was so ordinary,so common to have my hubby here for holidays..and i was thinking he doing nothing to help me with holidays preparations...now i see how much he miss me with decorating home and garden.
And in lot other things i'm missing my Ken.all those little things he do at home and of course i miss regular sex ,its not easy to asleep when there are no sex at all,...yes ...yes i can masturbate but that's not good as sex is.
KEN please comeback home soooooooooooooooooon!
P.S. Ken dear,your garden waithig for you

Relationship-how to save it

Here i will talk about relationship between married couple..i'm talking from my own perspective after 30++ years of marriage.
In start you have to decide what you want in life,do you really want to have never ending marriage.To have that kind of marriage you have to be very determinate to reach it.Of course all have to start with true love and very good match in sex.If you don't have fantastic sex from beginning i don't believe you will be able to have long good marriage.
Second whats important after sex is to control your jealous and to control our deep need to own our partners.
Ladies stop to be jealous ,or i will say little control jealousy can space our relationship but to much jealousy is like a to much salt in our food.We cant eat it at all.
Married couple is not only lovers,not only parents ,married coupe must be friends who will in first place respect each other and who will respect freedom of each other.
And remember we are only human beings and we make mistakes.
I like story from my grandma,before i married she told me this story about lady who love ice-cream and chocolate...after some time she decided to eat only ice-cream and stop eating chocolate,but as time goes she start to think a lot about chocolate and after some time she goes and buy chocolate and all her ice-cream from fridge was forgot.After some time she find that chocolate is fine but its not right to abandon ice-cream and she returned to eat ice-cream as well.
What was the point of the story i asked my grandma and she explained me that we must accept that we can love 2 things equal in same time,so women and men during life may be in love with more than one person.
Be a friend to your partner and forgive your partner all what you are ready to forget yourself or what you are ready to forget your child and what you will always forget your the best friend.
Don't judge hard,be wise and separate what is really important and what is only bad moment in your partner life.

Proud means nothing when is heart in game!!

To be clear to be proud is OK,we must be proud on what we are,from where we come etc. but when love is in sometimes we have to forget PROUD!
Proud can cost us our happiness,be sure!
Girl like to say i am to proud to call him first,but she forgot how many times he called her before.
Women,girls same same..sometimes we are proud where its better to use only ratio!
When heart is in don't ever think what will my parents think if i do this or that,you only you counting in heart things..if you can except his bad side its OK,cos he have to accept your not so good side to.
Think,think hard we are all only human,we make mistakes..if we make mistake doesn't mean that we are not good.
Well if your partner ever have had little affair don't judge him very hard,he is just human and having affair does not mean that he don't love you,opposite --after little affair he will even love you more and appreciate you more..
so forget PROUD when heart is in!!