In start you have to decide what you want in life,do you really want to have never ending marriage.To have that kind of marriage you have to be very determinate to reach it.Of course all have to start with true love and very good match in sex.If you don't have fantastic sex from beginning i don't believe you will be able to have long good marriage.
Second whats important after sex is to control your jealous and to control our deep need to own our partners.
Ladies stop to be jealous ,or i will say little control jealousy can space our relationship but to much jealousy is like a to much salt in our food.We cant eat it at all.
Married couple is not only lovers,not only parents ,married coupe must be friends who will in first place respect each other and who will respect freedom of each other.
And remember we are only human beings and we make mistakes.
I like story from my grandma,before i married she told me this story about lady who love ice-cream and chocolate...after some time she decided to eat only ice-cream and stop eating chocolate,but as time goes she start to think a lot about chocolate and after some time she goes and buy chocolate and all her ice-cream from fridge was forgot.After some time she find that chocolate is fine but its not right to abandon ice-cream and she returned to eat ice-cream as well.
What was the point of the story i asked my grandma and she explained me that we must accept that we can love 2 things equal in same time,so women and men during life may be in love with more than one person.
Be a friend to your partner and forgive your partner all what you are ready to forget yourself or what you are ready to forget your child and what you will always forget your the best friend.
Don't judge hard,be wise and separate what is really important and what is only bad moment in your partner life.
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