When i take a look at all my daughters i don't feel any regret,having them was my the very best choose in whole my life.
Four days ago i got my 3th grandchild and that's improve my life to!
My daughter and baby girl are still in Hospital ,both very well and i hope both will be at home soon.
As parent i did my job with kids as better i was able
Last 32 years my every single day was dedicated to my daughters happiness and needs.
I have very good relationship with 6 of 7 my daughters but with one of them relationship is not so good.
She have feeling that i was not good mother in many important ways.
She find me not good parent in ,for my opinion,not important little things ,such as:
- i cooked to much and bake cakes or cookies in daily basses /that's she find so wrong/
- i didn't bread-breast her for a whole year,i done it only for 5-6 months
- she find me to traditional and to conventional
Not only me,she also find her father guilty for few things.
Last night she want me to go in her house/by the way house is my present for her/ to prepare baby clothes and to wash few things.
I went in her house and i found that she renovated all first floor/furniture i bought for her last year,so all was new and very good quality and was so very expensive/.
I must admit,i was feeling harm by my daughter,and i still have same feeling.
She is in Hospital,so i didn't want to have discussion about that with her /and i still don't want/.
Big Mastery For Me-Why she throw out all furniture?
Now when i wrote all about whats hurt me i feel better,and of course i will try to understand my daughter.
The only constant about relationship between kids and parents is to much miss- understanding!
Parents are always guilty!!
Its little funny,but I'm sure she will be find guilty by her daughter in the future,in the same way she find me guilty this days.
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