Better Senior Sex
Tips for Enjoying a Healthy Sex Life as You Age
mature sex lifeSex can be a powerful emotional experience and health-improving tool, and it’s certainly not only for the young. Sex matters throughout your life, and can actually take on an increased importance in your senior years. For older men and women alike, the benefits of good sex can be extensive: it can increase circulation, reduce anxiety, release painkilling endomorphism—and help to relax and satisfy.
Naturally, senior sex can present challenges, and you may feel discouraged by physical or emotional issues in your way. But these problems are not insurmountable; with better understanding and an open mind, you can enjoy a gratifying sex life well into your later years.
Good sex at any age
The need for intimacy is ageless. And studies now confirm that no matter what your gender, you can enjoy sex for as long as you wish. Naturally, sex at 70 or 80 may not be like it is at 20 or 30—but in some ways it can be better. As a senior, you may feel wiser than you were in your earlier years, and know what works best for you when it comes to your sex life. Older people often have a great deal more self-confidence and self-awareness, and feel released from the unrealistic ideals of youth and prejudices of others. And with children grown and work less demanding, couples are better able to relax and enjoy one another without the old distractions.
For a number of reasons, though, many seniors worry about sex in their later years, and end up turning away from sexual encounters. Some older adults feel embarrassed, either by their aging bodies or by their “performance,” while others are affected by illness or loss of a partner. Without accurate information and an open mind, a temporary situation can turn into a permanent one. You can avoid letting this happen by being proactive. Whether you’re seeking to restart or improve your sex life, it’s important to be ready to try new things, and to ask for professional help if necessary. There is much you can do to compensate for the normal changes that come with aging. With proper information and support, your later years can be an exciting time to explore both the emotional and sensual aspects of your sexuality.
What is the purpose of sex in later life?
As a senior, the two things that may have brought the greatest joy—children and career—are no longer as prevalent in your everyday life. Personal relationships often take on a greater significance, and sex can be an important way of connecting. Senior sex has the power to:
- Improve mental and physical health. Senior sex can burn fat, cause the brain to release endorphins, and drastically reduce anxiety.
- Increase lifespan. Through its health-improving benefits, a good senior sex life can add years to your life.
- Solidify relationships. Senior sex is a chance to express the closeness of your deepest relationship.
- Give refuge. Senior sex gives you a chance to escape from the sometimes-harsh realities of the world.
Tips for better senior sex: Accept & celebrate who you are
Sex in later life may not be the same as it was in your youth—but that doesn’t have to be a bad thing. In fact, sex can be more enjoyable than ever. As you find yourself embracing your older identity, you can:
- Reap the benefits of experience. The independence and self-confidence that comes with age can be very attractive to your spouse or potential partners. No matter your gender, you may feel better about your body at 72 than you did at 22. And it is likely that you now know more about yourself and what makes you excited and happy. Your experience and self-possession can make your sex life exciting for you and your partner.
- Look ahead. As you enter your senior years, try to let go of expectations for your sex life. Do your best to avoid dwelling on how things are different. If you enjoyed an active sex life in your younger years, there’s no reason to slow down with age, unless you want to. A positive attitude and open mind can go a long way toward improving your sex life, especially in your later years.
- Love and appreciate your older self. Naturally, your body is going through changes as you age. You look and feel differently than you did when you were younger. But if you can accept these changes as natural and hold your head up high, you’ll not only feel better, you’ll also be more attractive to others. Confidence and honesty garner the respect of others—and can be sexy and appealing.
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